Transform How You Love, Connect, and Relate:
You’re tired of repeating the same painful patterns. You’re done giving everything to relationships that leave you feeling unseen and unfulfilled. You’re ready for something different—something deeper.
I guide heart-centered women through proven pathways to relational transformation. Together, we’ll heal the wounds keeping you stuck, break free from patterns that no longer serve you, and create the authentic, nourishing connections you deserve.
This isn’t about fixing what’s wrong with you. It’s about reclaiming your power, trusting yourself again, and building relationships that honor who you truly are.
Transform How You Love, Connect, and Relate:
You’re tired of repeating the same painful patterns. You’re done giving everything to relationships that leave you feeling unseen and unfulfilled. You’re ready for something different—something deeper.
I guide heart-centered women through proven pathways to relational transformation. Together, we’ll heal the wounds keeping you stuck, break free from patterns that no longer serve you, and create the authentic, nourishing connections you deserve.
This isn’t about fixing what’s wrong with you. It’s about reclaiming your power, trusting yourself again, and building relationships that honor who you truly are.
Why I Do This Work
For over a decade, I’ve witnessed the same heartbreaking pattern: incredible, intelligent women pouring themselves into relationships that drain rather than nourish them.
I know this pain intimately—not from observation, but from lived experience.
My own journey through relational breakdown became my greatest teacher. In my darkest moments, when I felt most disconnected from myself and others, I discovered a profound truth: the way we relate to others is a direct reflection of how we relate to ourselves.
That revelation changed everything.
I stopped looking outside myself for answers and began the deep inner work of healing. I studied attachment theory, emotional intelligence, nervous system regulation, and heart-centered practices. I learned to recognize the unconscious patterns driving my choices. I discovered how to break cycles that had repeated for generations.
And as I transformed, so did every relationship in my life.
Today, I dedicate my life to guiding other women through this same transformative journey. Not because I have all the answers, but because I know the path—and I know it works.
Your external relationships will never exceed the relationship that you have with yourself. When you heal from the inside out, everything changes.
I work with women who are done with surface-level advice and ready for deep, soul-level transformation. Women who know they’re meant for more. Women who are finally ready to do the work.
If that’s you, I’m here to guide you home—to yourself, and to the relationships you truly desire.
Ways To Work Together
Every woman’s journey is unique. Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, transforming current relationships, or learning to relate to yourself differently, there’s a path designed for where you are right now.
1:1 | INDIVIDUAL TRANSFORMATION SESSIONS
Deep personal work for lasting change
In one-on-one sessions, we dive beneath surface behaviors to uncover and heal the root causes of your relationship patterns. This is where profound shifts happen—when you finally understand why you keep experiencing the same dynamics and learn how to create something different.
Perfect for you if:
- You keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners
- You struggle with boundaries or people-pleasing
- You’re healing from a painful breakup, divorce, or betrayal
- You want to understand your attachment patterns and triggers
- You’re ready to transform your relationship with yourself
- You feel stuck repeating the same relational patterns
What You’ll Gain:
✓ Clear understanding of your unconscious relationship patterns
✓ Tools to regulate your emotions and nervous system
✓ The ability to set and maintain healthy boundaries
✓ Deeper self-trust and emotional clarity
✓ New ways of showing up in all your relationships
Session Details:
- 60-minute sessions via video call
- Personalized approach tailored to your needs
- Ongoing support between sessions
- Option to book single sessions or packages
Investment: Single session $225 | 4-Session Package $800 | 8-Session Package $1,500
1:2 | COUPLES TRANSFORMATION SESSIONS
Healing and reconnection for committed partners
When both partners are willing to do vulnerable, honest work, profound healing becomes possible. These sessions create a safe, nurturing container where you can move beyond defensiveness and blame to rediscover the love and connection that brought you together.
Perfect for you if:
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Communication has broken down or become toxic
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You’re stuck in the same arguments on repeat
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Intimacy and emotional connection feel distant
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One or both of you is considering leaving
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You want to heal betrayal or rebuild trust
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You’re both committed to transformation (not just “fixing” each other)
What You’ll Gain:
✓ Skills to truly hear and be heard by your partner
✓ Understanding of each other’s attachment styles and triggers
✓ Tools to de-escalate conflict and repair ruptures
✓ Deeper emotional intimacy and vulnerability
✓ A roadmap for moving forward together—or clarity if it’s time to part
Session Details:
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75-minute sessions via video call
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Both partners must be present and willing participants
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Homework and practices to support integration
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Minimum 4-session commitment recommended
Investment: $350 per session | 4-Session Package $1,300 | 8-Session Package $2,400
1:4 | SMALL GROUP HEALING CIRCLES
Transform in community with other heart-centered women
There’s something magical that happens when women come together with open hearts and a shared commitment to healing. In these intimate circles (maximum 4 participants), you’ll experience the power of being truly witnessed, supported, and understood.
Perfect for you if:
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You thrive with community support and sisterhood
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You feel isolated in your relationship struggles
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You want to give and receive wisdom from other women
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You’re on a conscious spiritual growth journey
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You value the energy of collective healing
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You’re ready to be vulnerable in a safe space
What You’ll Gain:
✓ Deep sense of belonging and being understood
✓ Insights from witnessing others’ journeys
✓ Accountability and encouragement
✓ Lifelong connections with like-minded women
✓ Expanded perspective on relationships and healing
Circle Details:
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4-session / once a week themed circles (new themes quarterly)
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90-minute weekly sessions via video call
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Maximum 4 participants for intimacy
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Private online community for support between sessions
Investment: $600 for 4-week circle (payment plans available)
Next Circle Begins: [July 22, 2026] | Theme: [Journey to Rebirth]
THE FOUR PHASES:
PHASE 1: REVEAL (Weeks 1-3)
Uncover Your Hidden Blueprint
We shine light on the unconscious patterns, beliefs, and early experiences shaping your relationships. Together, we map your unique relational blueprint—understanding your attachment style, triggers, defense mechanisms, and the stories you’ve been telling yourself about love.
You’ll Discover:
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The core wounds driving your relationship choices
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Your authentic desires vs. what you think you “should” want
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The patterns you’ve been unconsciously repeating
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Where you learned to relate the way you do
PHASE 2: RELEASE (Weeks 4-6)
Let Go of What No Longer Serves
Awareness isn’t enough—we need to release what’s keeping you stuck. Using somatic practices, emotional processing, and nervous system regulation, we safely clear old pain, outdated beliefs, and protective patterns that once helped you survive but now hold you back.
You’ll Experience:
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Powerful emotional release and healing
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Freedom from old stories and identities
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Forgiveness (of yourself and others)
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Physical release of stored tension and trauma
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Space for something new to emerge
PHASE 3: RECLAIM (Weeks 7-9)
Build Your New Relational Foundation
With space cleared, we build new. You’ll develop the skills, boundaries, and self-trust necessary for healthy relationships. This is where you reclaim your voice, your power, and your right to relationships that honor you.
You’ll Develop:
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Unshakeable boundaries that feel authentic
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Emotional regulation tools you can use anytime
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Communication skills that create true intimacy
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The ability to recognize red flags early
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Self-trust and confidence in your choices
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New ways of showing up in relationships
PHASE 4: RISE (Weeks 10-12)
Embody Your Transformation
The final phase anchors your transformation into your body, mind, and spirit. Using visualization, intention-setting, and the ancient practice of “scrying” (creating your future with focused intention), you’ll crystallize and embody your vision for relationships moving forward.
You’ll Create:
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A clear, embodied vision of your relational future
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Practices to maintain your transformation
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Your personal relational manifesto
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A roadmap for continued growth
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Celebration of how far you’ve come
THE PROGRAM INCLUDES...
✓ 12 weeks of 90-minute deep-dive sessions (weekly or bi-weekly)
✓ Personalized practices and integration tools between sessions
✓ Unlimited email/text support for questions and breakthroughs
✓ Custom resources and recordings tailored to your journey
✓ Pre-work materials to deepen your awareness
✓ Lifetime access to any group materials or resources created
Investment: $3,600 (payment plans available: 3 monthly payments of $1,250)
Bonuses When You Commit Today:
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Complimentary 30-minute integration call at 6 months
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Access to future group healing circles at 15% off
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Priority booking for ongoing sessions
Signature Program:
The Wholeheartedly Path (TWP)
Your Complete Relational Transformation Journey
If you’re ready for deep, comprehensive transformation—not just insight, but lasting change in how you show up in every relationship—the WHRTLY Path is your roadmap home to yourself.
This signature 12-week program is a systematic, soul-deep journey that takes you from where you are now to where you’ve always wanted to be: confident, clear, and creating relationships that truly nourish you.
Is This Work Right for You?
This work is transformative—and it’s not for everyone. It requires courage, honesty, and a willingness to look within. You’ll get the most from our work together if you resonate with the following:
You’re Ready if:
✓ You take responsibility. You understand that even if you didn’t cause your pain, you have the power to heal it. You’re not looking for someone to blame—you’re looking to grow.
✓ You’re willing to feel. Transformation requires feeling things you may have avoided. You’re open to discomfort because you know that’s where real change happens.
✓ You value depth. Surface-level advice isn’t enough anymore. You’re seeking soul-deep transformation that changes how you see yourself and relate to others.
✓ You’re heart-centered. You identify as someone who feels deeply, cares deeply, and is ready to honor that sensitivity as a strength.
✓ You’re open to new perspectives. You’re willing to question old beliefs about love, relationships, and yourself. You understand that to create something different, you need to think differently.
✓ You believe in possibility. Even if you’re hurting now, part of you believes transformation is possible. You’re ready to invest in yourself and your future.
This Work May Not Be For You If:
✗ You’re looking for quick fixes or surface solutions
✗ You believe your problems are entirely caused by other people
✗ You’re in active crisis and need therapeutic intervention
✗ You’re not willing to examine your own patterns and behaviors
✗ You’re not ready to invest time, energy, and resources in yourself
Still Unsure?
Let’s talk. I offer complimentary 20-minute discovery calls where we can explore your situation, answer your questions, and determine together whether this work is right for you—right now.
There’s no pressure, no sales pitch. Just honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.
TESTIMONIALS
Transformations That Changed Everything
Here’s what people say about their journey through relational transformation:
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Your Questions, Answered!
How is working with a Relational Alchemist different from therapy or coaching?
Great question! I occupy a unique space between traditional therapy and coaching.
Unlike therapy, I don’t diagnose mental health conditions, treat symptoms, or work with severe trauma or psychiatric issues. If you’re in crisis or dealing with clinical mental health challenges, a licensed therapist is the right fit.
Unlike coaching, I don’t focus on surface-level goal-setting, motivation, or achievement strategies. Traditional coaching is often about getting from point A to point B efficiently.
As a Relational Alchemist, I guide you through deep, transformative inner work that changes how you relate to yourself and others from the inside out. I blend emotional intelligence, somatic practices, attachment theory, and heart-centered awareness to help you understand and shift unconscious patterns.
Think of it as: Therapy addresses what’s clinically wrong. Coaching addresses what you want to achieve. Relational Alchemy addresses who you’re becoming and how you relate.
Many clients work with both a therapist and me simultaneously—they complement each other beautifully.
How long does transformation typically take?
Honest answer? It depends on where you’re starting and where you want to go.
Some women experience profound shifts in just a few sessions—gaining clarity, awareness, and tools that immediately change their experience. Others need months of consistent work to heal deep wounds and rewire lifelong patterns.
For significant transformation, I typically recommend:
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Minimum 4-8 sessions for meaningful change
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The 12-week Wholeheartedly Path for comprehensive transformation
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Ongoing sessions (monthly or as-needed) for continued growth and support
That said, every session is valuable. Even one conversation can plant seeds that bloom for years.
Do you only work with women?
Currently, yes. My practice focuses exclusively on serving women who identify as heart-centered, highly sensitive individuals navigating relationship transformation.
This specialization allows me to create a specific kind of safe space and speak to experiences that are often uniquely feminine. The work goes deeper when there’s this shared understanding.
However, I do work with couples where one partner is male or non-binary, as long as both partners are committed to the process.
Can I try a single session before committing to a package or program?
Absolutely! I offer individual 60-minute sessions so you can experience my approach before making a larger commitment.
However, I want to be honest: real transformation rarely happens in one session. While a single session can provide valuable insight and tools, lasting change requires time, repetition, and deeper work.
If you’re considering whether to work together, I recommend starting with a free 20-minute discovery call. We can discuss your situation, answer questions, and determine if we’re a good fit—with no pressure or obligation.
Single session: $225
Discovery call: Complimentary
What if I'm in crisis or need immediate support?
If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis, having thoughts of self-harm, or dealing with an emergency situation, please reach out to:
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
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Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
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National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
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Your local emergency services: 911
My work is designed for transformation and growth, not crisis intervention. Once you’re stable and safe, I’d be honored to support your healing journey.
The second step is to assess your relationships and situations, then decide if you need and desire change. If you are having recurring relational road blocks and yearn for a change but you don’t know how to materialize your desires, my services are here for you.
If your heart is open, but you are not quite sure what next steps to take to mend your relationships, my services are for you as well.
If you believe that any relational disconnect that you are experiencing is the fault of someone other than you and/or beyond your control to change, my services are likely not a good fit for you.
Do you offer payment plans?
Yes! I believe financial barriers shouldn’t prevent you from accessing transformative support.
Payment plans available for:
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4 and 8-session packages (split into 2-3 payments)
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The Wholeheartedly Path (3 monthly payments)
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Group Healing Circles (2 monthly payments)
Payment plans are discussed during your discovery call and customized based on your needs.
What's your cancellation policy?
I understand life happens. Here’s how it works:
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24+ hours notice: Full credit toward future session, no charge
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Less than 24 hours notice: 50% session fee charged
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No-show: Full session fee charged
For packages and programs, sessions must be used within 6 months of purchase (12 months for TWP). Extensions are available in special circumstances.
Do you accept insurance?
No, I don’t accept insurance or provide superbills for reimbursement. Because my work falls outside traditional therapy, it’s not covered by health insurance.
However, you may be able to use HSA or FSA funds—check with your provider.
What exactly is "scrying" in Phase 4 of the WHRTLY Path?
I love this question! Scrying might sound mysterious, but it’s actually a powerful, practical tool.
In its ancient sense, scrying meant “foretelling the future.” But in my practice, we use it to create your future—using focused intention, visualization, and embodied practice to anchor your vision for relationships.
Think of it like this: You’re using your own mind’s creative power to materialize what you desire. It’s part meditation, part manifestation, part commitment ceremony to your new way of being.
It’s also really fun—and clients consistently say it’s one of the most powerful parts of the program.
Can I work with you if I'm not currently in a relationship?
Absolutely—and honestly, doing this work while you’re single can be the most powerful timing.
When you’re not in an active relationship, you have the space and clarity to:
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Heal past wounds without external pressure
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Break patterns before entering your next relationship
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Build self-trust and boundaries from a grounded place
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Understand yourself deeply before choosing a partner
Some of my most profound transformations happen with women who are single and ready to do the inner work before their next chapter begins.
What if I don't consider myself spiritual? Will this work resonate with me?
You don’t need to be spiritual to benefit from this work. While my approach is heart-centered and honors the deeper aspects of human experience, it’s also grounded in practical psychology, neuroscience, and relational skills.
I meet you where you are. If spiritual language resonates, we’ll use it. If you prefer practical, evidence-based approaches, that’s what we’ll focus on.
What matters most is your openness to inner work and your commitment to transformation—not your spiritual beliefs.
Still have questions?
[Schedule a free discovery call] or [send me a message] and I’ll get back to you within 24 hours.
Ready to Transform How You Love, Connect, and Relate?
You’ve read this far because something in you knows it’s time. Time to stop repeating painful patterns. Time to heal what’s been holding you back. Time to create the relationships you truly deserve.
The question isn’t whether transformation is possible—it is.
The question is: Are you ready?
Here’s What Happens Next:
Step 1: Schedule your complimentary 20-minute discovery call
Step 2: We’ll discuss where you are and where you want to go
Step 3: If we’re a good fit, we’ll create your personalized transformation plan
No pressure. No obligation. Just honest conversation about your journey.
Email me directly: hello@wholeheartedlytm.com
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